141. A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP IS A PROCESS, NOT A GOAL
I’ve always been fascinated by relationships and people’s handling of them. So many people are so desperate to be in a relationship that they resort to doing totally crazy and unreasonable things. And the result is pain and suffering.
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We all have an idea of the TYPE of person we’d like to share our lives with. But we often forget that a person is a JOURNEY, not a fixed destination. And likewise, a relationship too, is a JOURNEY, which can never quite be achieved. Instead, it must be TRAVELED and tended like a garden in the spring.
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What every journey has in common is MOVEMENT. So, the problem in a relationship usually arises when one of the participants STOPS moving. They want things to STAY JUST THE WAY THEY ARE.
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Naturally, this is NOT natural
, because CHANGE is written into the fabric of our reality. In fact, our reality is a result of the change. And in biological beings, change simply means GROWTH or DECLINE. It’s that simple.
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WHICH ONE WILL YOU CHOOSE?
PS: Good morning the changing world, wherever you are
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