113. I HATE YOU (BECAUSE YOU NO LONGER WANT ME)
How can something as precious as love turn to something destructive as hate?
We’ve all heard or experienced a similar truth, through personal or third-party relationships. First, there was LOVE, passion, and togetherness, then came HATE, with similar but opposite passion and separation.
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How is this possible? It’s because LOVE and HATE are one and the same emotion (similar chemical reaction), but experienced at two OPPOSITE sides.
We could say there exists ONLY love. Hate, on the other hand, is simply the ABSENCE of love, combined with FEAR and PAIN. To be specific, hate comes from FEAR of loneliness, irrelevance, combined with the PAIN of REJECTION, of hurting Ego.
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WE HAVE THESE UNDERSTANDINGS about who we are. The question is: Why are we not teaching this at school?
– Why do Psychologists wait for the turmoil to hit us and only then TREAT the effects?
And why is so much treatment done with pharmaceutical drugs, rather than simply EXPLAIN why we are the way we are?
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I proposed this a friend psychologist and he exclaimed: “Joe, don’t be silly! Psychologists will be out of work!”
Of course, it’s him that’s silly, because he most likely does psychology for WORK, rather than work to grow and expand his inner potential.
The truth (information) is out there, all we need to do is to understand it and embrace it.
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My purpose for writing the series of Unfinished Books is to further the UNDERSTANDING ABOUT WHO WE TRULY ARE. Such an understanding requires that we combine the MIND with our body and EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
Once we have this understanding, then dealing with so-called LIVING truly becomes amazing and a self-fulfilling quest.
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It’s not about being perfect. After all, we are only human. However, we are intelligent and self-aware beings and therefore RESPONSE-ABLE. Put simply, this means we can CHOOSE how we respond. I choose LOVE over hate. How about you?
PS: Good morning the Response-Able world, wherever you are ![]()
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