141. A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP IS A PROCESS, NOT A GOAL
I’ve always been fascinated by relationships and people’s handling of them. So many people are so desperate to be in a relationship that they resort to doing totally crazy and unreasonable things. And the result is pain and suffering.
We all have an idea of the TYPE of person we’d like to share our lives with. But we often forget that a person is a JOURNEY, not a fixed destination. And likewise, a relationship too, is a JOURNEY, which can never quite be achieved. Instead, it must be TRAVELED and tended like a garden in the spring.
What every journey has in common is MOVEMENT. So, the problem in a relationship usually arises when one of the participants STOPS moving. They want things to STAY JUST THE WAY THEY ARE.
Naturally, this is NOT natural , because CHANGE is written into the fabric of our reality. In fact, our reality is a result of the change. And in biological beings, change simply means GROWTH or DECLINE. It’s that simple.
WHICH ONE WILL YOU CHOOSE?
PS: Good morning the changing world, wherever you are
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